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How This Book Was Written and Why - by Dale Carnegie
Section 1 Fundamental Facts You Should Know About Worry
1 - Live In ¡°Day-Tight Compartments¡±
2 - A Magic Formula For Solving Worry Situations
3 - What Worry May Do To You
Section 2 Basic Techniques In Analyzing Worry
1 - How To Analyze And Solve Worry Problems
2 - How To Eliminate Fifty Per Cent Of Your Business Worries
Section 3 How To Break The Worry Habit Before It Breaks You
1 - How To Crowd Worry Out Of Your Mind
2 - Don¡¯t Let The Beetles Get You Down
3 - A Law That Will Outlaw Many Of Your Worries
4 - Co-Operate With The Inevitable
5 - Put A ¡°Stop-Loss¡± Order On Your Worries
6 - Don¡¯t Try To Saw Sawdust
Section 4 Seven Ways To Cultivate A Mental Attitude That Will Bring You Peace And Happiness
1 - Eight Words That Can Transform Your Life
2 - The High Cost Of Getting Even
3 - If You Do This, You Will Never Worry About Ingratitude
4 - Would You Take A Million Dollars For What You Have?
5 - Find Yourself And Be Yourself: Remember There Is No One Else On Earth Like You
6 - If You Have A Lemon, Make A Lemonade
7 - How To Cure Melancholy In Fourteen Days
Section 5 The Perfect Way To Conquer Worry
1 - How My Mother And Father Conquered Worry
Section 6 How To Keep From Worrying About Criticism
1 - Remember That No One Ever Kicks A Dead Dog
2 - Do This?And Criticism Can¡¯t Hurt You
3 - Fool Things I Have Done
Section 7 Six Ways To Prevent Fatigue And Worry And Keep Your Energy And Spirits High
1 - How To Add One Hour A Day To Your Waking Life
2 - What Makes You Tired?And What You Can Do About It
3 - How The Housewife Can Avoid Fatigue?And Keep Looking Young
4 - Four Good Working Habits That Will Help Prevent Fatigue And Worry
5 - How To Banish The Boredom That Produces Fatigue, Worry, And Resentment
6 - How To Keep From Worrying About Insomnia
Section 8 How To Find The Kind Of Work In Which You May Be Happy And Successful
1 - One Of The Two Major Decisions Of Your Life
Section 9 How To Lessen Your Financial Worries
1 - ¡°Seventy Per Cent Of All Our Worries...¡±
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